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a former gymnast with a neverending case of wanderlust


The roadtrip that wasn’t

About two weeks in advance, a change in my husband’s work schedule meant that we would both be able to take the same week off at the end of March. Obviously, that meant it was time for me to plan another last-minute trip.

But where to?

With such a short time until our planned departure, combined with current world events, plane ticket prices were far from ideal. Nonetheless, I pulled up the Google Flights explore tool, entered our dates of travel, and scanned the results.

Surprisingly, there were a few destinations with some affordable options. Excellent!

But over the course of the next couple days, each destination was eliminated one by one. The first didn’t seem like a place we’d need to spend a full week. The second had cheap flights but with terribly inconvenient arrival and departure times. The third had temporary closures at two of the main local attractions we wanted to visit. And prices for accommodations at the fourth destination were absolutely through the roof.

Frustrated but undeterred, I shifted my efforts to searching for last-minute cruise deals. I’ve never been on a cruise, but it’s something my husband and I have talked about trying out. There actually were some decent last-minute deals. However, the logistics of learning about cruising and planning shore excursions and obtaining recommended vaccines proved too overwhelming for such a last-minute situation.

Finally, we turned our focus to roadtripping; far cheaper, fewer logistics, and therefore much less stressful. Or so I thought.

It was now eight days before our trip, and we’d finally settled on a destination: the Black Hills region of South Dakota, with stops in Wyoming and Nebraska on the way there and back. It’s a place I’ve researched before, so the itinerary was mostly put together and everything really just fell into place. I spent an evening booking hotels and securing tickets for cave tours, and just like that, we were all set.

Until I woke the next morning to the news that there was a new and rapidly-growing forest fire burning in the Black Hills.

Not a problem I thought we’d be facing in March.

Over the course of the next week, I was monitoring the fire while brainstorming other ideas, and by two days before our planned departure, we had a(nother) new plan: if the fire was mostly under control by Friday evening, we’d still go to South Dakota. If it wasn’t, we’d head south to New Mexico instead.

It’s a good thing I’m a relentless travel planner who has backup plans for her backup plans, because boy oh boy did we need them.

Thankfully, by Friday night the fire was in fact mostly contained and no longer expanding. So, on Saturday morning we loaded up the car and headed north.

Destination: Devils Tower, Wyoming.

Devils Tower

On Sunday morning, we crossed into South Dakota, marking my husband’s first visit to the state. We spent the day hiking in Spearfish Canyon before heading south to our home base in Custer State Park for the next few days.

Spearfish Canyon

Sadly, on Sunday evening we received news about a family member that required us to abandon the remainder of our plans and drive to the upper Midwest (and eventually all the way back to Colorado a few days later).

A small silver lining: the route back home took us right past the highest point in Iowa!

At one point during the planning process, after telling her about all the trip ideas we’d already ruled out, my sister commented that perhaps the universe was telling us the trip wasn’t meant to be and we should just stay home. Looking back, I think she might have been onto something. Had we flown to California or been on a cruise ship in the Caribbean or even just driven south to New Mexico, it would have been much more difficult – if not impossible – for us to abandon our plans at the drop of a hat and be there for our family.

It was only because we were in South Dakota that we were able to make it.

In the end, it certainly wasn’t the roadtrip we had planned. But it was a roadtrip that led us to where we needed to be at the time, and I’m thankful for that.

South Dakota will still be there next time.

24 responses to “The roadtrip that wasn’t”

  1. Devils Tower is the best! I hadn’t been there a since either until a few years ago when I was able to swing by while in the area.

  2. At least you’re close enough to make another Black Hills trip feasible. I highly recommend this! (I’m also obviously very biased.)

    I’m sorry to hear about your family emergency.

  3. I think your sister was right, it wasn’t the trip or the back up trips you had in mind, but you were where you needed to be. Thank goodness for derailed plans so you could be with family then. Also, you just have to chuckle a little bit that Iowa has anything that could be called a high point 🙂

  4. Yep, that was definitely a sign! And I imagine all those destinations will still be waiting for you… Mel

    1. Thanks, Mel. It definitely was. And they will. In fact, we’ll be headed back to a couple of the South Dakota destinations next month.

  5. It’s wild that you had not just plan A, but also plan B, C, D, E, etc! It’s a shame that you couldn’t quite make it to your destination in South Dakota, but I’m glad you saw a silver lining in that it brought you closer to the family matter at hand. Like you said, you can always visit South Dakota later!

    1. It’s amazing how many times we make it to plan E these days. Weather and fires have made travel in the west very unpredictable. I’ve learned to have many backup plans.

  6. Sorry about your family members Diana, but whoohoo, highest point in Iowa! And I can’t believe forest fires are already a problem. Yikes.

    1. It’s so bad. In the week before our trip alone, about 1 million acres burned in multiple fires across Nebraska and there were 3 fires in South Dakota. It’s been dry, warm, and windy most of the winter. I’m so scared for summer.

  7. Glad you were able to make it home and hope all is well, and at least you got to the highest point in Iowa (It doesn’t look very high!)I’ll now be singing ‘ black hills of Dakota’ all evening

    1. Thanks, Jim. The Iowa high point is in fact one of the lower ones, and not even really a point. Just a spot on the plains.

  8. Ah – this all sounds so familiar! But, as you say, you weren’t unreachable and were able to change plans – And you saw the Devil’s Tower!!

    1. We did have a great time at Devils Tower! It’s such a cool place.

  9. I am sorry to hear about the road trip that didn’t really work out, dear Diana. It is a universal truth of travel that even the most meticulously prepared plans can fall apart, whether due to weather, logistical errors, or unexpected cancellations. I hope your family is ok. Thanks for sharing, and have a good day 🙂 Aiva xx

    1. Thanks, Aiva. As you said, sometimes it just happens. South Dakota will still be there next time.

  10. Traveling is not getting any easier Diana. For 6 years we had family obligations to take care of in another province. This meant every time we planned something we had to be prepared to cancel. Eventually, we just gave up and headed West twice a year. This is the first year that has not had to happen and it is so strange, but due to the war and shortage of jet fuel, we are still stuck at home. I do hope everything was OK with your family and you will soon be planning another getaway. Allan

    1. Oh gosh, that’s a lot of years of potentially cancelled plans. But as you said, life happens and there are family obligations. And we actually will be heading back to South Dakota for a few days next month for attempt #2.

  11. It is frustrating when you have the time, but no plans feel like they’re working out. Seems things weren’t working out for a reason though and I’m glad you could easily abandon your plans to be there for your family.

    1. Thanks, Lyssy. I am too.

  12. Not every plan works out. Gosh knows how many of our Plan A’s have gone by the wayside. But family issues easily preempt one’s plans. It’s amazing how elaborate Hawkeye Point has become since we were there some 25 years ago. Back then it was at the end of a cattle trough and you picked a free Hawkeye key holder out of a plastic bucket. We still have that key holder.

    1. Oh really? Interesting. They’ve definitely built it up, there’s a barn and exhibits and everything. And they still have the keychains too 😊

  13. I feel like the older I get, the more I feel if the vibes are off on a certain plan. Sounds like woo woo stuff, but I swear there’s some truth to it! I learned that when an Alaska trip fell through last year with the person that really kinda sorta ruined my Yellowstone trip. If I had been in remote Alaska or Canada, it would’ve been a lot harder than just backpacking out to my car and driving home. So, the universe really handed you the signs on your March plans! But sounds like there was still a few awesome things! Who can complain about the best hunk of basalt in the world?!

    1. Oh gosh, yes, that would have been awful to be stuck in Alaska in that situation. You’re so right, sometimes the vibes are just off and we should listen. I was excited we made it to Devils Tower, though, because I hadn’t been there since I was a kid!

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